In order for a guy to have a sexual interest in the opposite sex, it is not at all necessary to create a romantic setting with candles. This can happen anywhere, anytime. An erotic background can appear unexpectedly during work, walking in the woods, or ordinary conversation.
To the question: "How to understand that a man is aroused? "- each girl will confidently answer that it is noticeable by the erection. In fact, everything is not as primitive as it seems. Psychologists confirm that the desire to possess a woman betrays the look, facial expression, and body movements of a man. Speech can convey only the information that a person intends to convey to others, and the face and body will give out the real feelings and state of an excited man.
In order to understand that a man is aroused, there are certain signs.
The most proven and accurate way to check if a guy is horny is to look at his trousers just below the waist, or even better, to touch his hand.
Erection is the dominant sign of a man's sexual arousal. At the time of the rush of blood to the head of the penis, the male organ hardens. In this case, the internal pressure can coincide with the arterial pressure, which allows the organ to change shape and increase its size.
There are times when, with emotional sexual arousal, an erection does not occur. This is a sign of vascular disease, diabetes mellitus, psychological distress or stress.
Non-verbal signals
There are several non-verbal body signals that better than any words tell about the sexual state of a man.
- During the conversation, the guy begins to involuntarily move closer to the object of his attention. And gradually the distance between the bodies inevitably decreases. Then a light touch of hands and feet will follow. This gesture will not entail active action, it will be almost invisible. But this is how a new love story can begin.
- If a woman is nearby, the man wants to touch her, hug her. But it so happens that circumstances do not allow this, and he tries to occupy his hands: buttons and unbuttons his collar, fiddles with a tie, twists a button, smoothes and ruffles his hair, pulls on his jacket. With enough arousal, the young man wants his partner to know about it. A man can get excited when he touches her hand or other parts of the body, straightens the lady's hair, looks for a reciprocal look, while leaning literally close. Therefore, do not be surprised when an outwardly calm gentleman suddenly begins to actively help out of the car or serve a coat. Everything is understandable: pleasant gestures of participation are another way to touch the object of your interest. When sexual arousal comes, the guy begins to automatically stroke and twirl in his hands an object that has fallen into his hands, which has the shape of a cylinder. Be it a pen, a glass, etc. This is no longer a signal, but a decisive appeal.
Courtship stage
If a man expresses sexual sympathy for a woman, then he will definitely designate this with his behavior. If the meeting takes place in a restaurant, then he will fill the wine glass, and offer a snack, and help to sit on a chair and get up from it. He will do all this not only thanks to good upbringing, but his actions will be guided by the male instinct - to get an additional opportunity to touch the object of his desire. Such an expression of concern suggests that the young man is planning a joint breakfast.
Poses of a man
Noticing a sexually interesting girl, the inner toggle switch of the conqueror of the female heart switches to the "alpha male" position. And here movements begin that will tell about the interest of a man: a quick pull-up of the abdomen, alignment of the back (a hint of good physical shape), a turn of the shoulders, in a sitting position, raising the legs. Such a gesture, as it were, suggests that he has something to offer a woman.
In addition, in front of the subject of his adoration, the guy tries to appear in a favorable light. He straightens, pulls in his stomach, straightens his chest.
Sometimes signs of incipient arousal can be read by touching the face (nose, chin, ears). Women also have such gestures. They betray excitement. And touching the lips or licking them unequivocally hints at the sexual overtones of these manipulations.
Physical reactions
- Rapid breathing, enlarged pupils, parted lips, a slightly hoarse voice - this is a conditional signal that a man's thoughts are working in a certain direction.
- Slightly widened nostrils seem to catch the scent of the female, which indicates obvious sympathy.
- At the same time, thirst appears, which is associated with an increase in body temperature.
- Visible blush on the cheeks.
- Touching the chin, nose, ears. According to psychologists, by stimulating these zones, the guy is trying to hide reflex nervousness and autoerotic symptoms. When aroused, the skin of the face becomes very sensitive to touch.
- When a man is possessed by passion, he loses control over his gaze and speech. With a blurred look, blushing and turning pale, even the most sane guy begins to carry such nonsense that a girl may doubt his adequacy. It's simple - at this time, information is processed that is not sent to the brain at all.
- A sign of an excited state will also be the diversion of the topic of conversation towards intimacy. An erotic association may arise in him when discussing everyday and everyday things.
Any man gets aroused by the visual image. So that a woman does not have to monitor her erection all the time and listen to her partner's breathing, for fear of missing a moment of incipient excitement, it is worth learning how to interest a man and attract his attention.
And in conclusion, a little advice - during love games, do not turn off the light, since a young man, not seeing a girl, will not be able to get aroused enough, and she will not know if he is ready for sexual exploits.